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a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another
If a man or woman is cuckolded, their wife or husband has a sexual relationship
with another person.
He came back from a three-month trip abroad to discover that he had been
Advice given to those experiencing the effects of an
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General information about extramarital submissive
extramarital submissive advice advice about Why Do People
This is often the first question people ask when they
learn of their partner's or spouses extramarital affair. the answers they
come up with are usually based on personal blame. They blame themselves,
their partner, their relationship, or the third party. They see it strictly
as a personal problem, a personal failure of the people involved. This
is a very simple explanation for a very complex question.
Usually there are three different kinds of forces that
are working together:
. Forces within the individual that pull them toward
Attraction: sex, companionship, admiration, power
Excitement, risk, or challenge
Falling in love
. Forces within the individual that push them toward
Desire to escape or find relief from a painful relationship
Desire to fill gaps in an existing relationship
Desire to punish one's partner
Need to prove one's attractiveness or worth
Desire for attention
. Societal influences:
submissive are glamorized in movies, soap operas, romance
novels, and TV shows of all kinds. Public disclosure of public figures
having submissive is headline news because we are fascinated and titillated
by hearing of others' submissive.
People are bombarded with images of women as sex objects
in advertising and marketing campaigns. Over and over, the message to
men is that the good life includes a parade of sexy women in their lives.
Women inadvertently buy into this image and strive to achieve it.
The lack of good sex education and the existence of sexual
taboos combine to make it difficult for most partners to talk honestly
As teenagers we get conditioned in deception when it
comes to sex—engaging in sexual activity while hiding it from our
The code of secrecy is a major factor in submissive because
it provides protection for the person having submissive and leads them
to believe they won't get caught.
Bottom Line: There is no ONE single reason a person has
an affair. There are usually many reasons, including some of the forces
that pull them toward submissive and some of the forces that push them
toward submissive, combined with the influence of the general factors
in society that contribute to submissive.
Who Has submissive?
We tend to think that only bad people have submissive
or only people in bad relationships. But no one is immune from an affair.
Monogamy is something most people say they believe in
and want for themselves. Every survey ever done on this question shows
a high percentage of people think monogamy is important to marriage and
that submissive are wrong. But a belief in monogamy as an ideal doesn't
prevent large numbers of people from having extramarital submissive. Most
people don't intend to have an affair and most people don't think it will
happen to them—but it does.
Bottom Line: No one is immune from having submissive
disrupt their lives or the lives of those they care about; they happen
to all kinds of people, in all walks of life.
. How Prevalent are submissive?
Conservative estimates are that percent of men and percent of women will
have an extramarital affair. These figures are even more significant when
we consider the total number of marriages involved—since it's unlikely
that all the men and women having submissive happen to be married to each
other. If even half of the women having submissive (or percent) are married
to men not included in the percent having submissive, then at least one
partner will have an affair in approximately percent of all marriages.
But we need to take a closer look at the statistics on
submissive to determine what they can contribute to an understanding of
our sexual patterns. While submissive happen in non-marital, "committed"
relationships as well as within marriage, most of the statistics deal
only with "extramarital" submissive. These statistics began
with Kinsey's reports in the 's and early 's. Kinsey's samples included
, men and showed that by age , percent of the men had experienced extramarital
sexual intercourse. Kinsey's original samples of , women showed that by
age , percent of the women had experienced extramarital sexual intercourse.
Later studies dealing exclusively with men indicate a
continuous increase in the number of men having extramarital submissive.
The increase for women having submissive has been even more significant.
Some of the statistics, both for men and for women, are extremely high
and legitimately debated, but many people question any statistics on extramarital
submissive, arguing that statistics are unreliable and confusing and that
no one knows precisely how prevalent submissive are. While there are slight
differences in the estimates based on clinical studies and questionnaires,
the bottom line is compelling in showing an extremely high (and rising)
incidence of extramarital submissive.
Why it helps to know about the prevalence of submissive:
For the person who knows their spouse has had an affair and is still trying
to understand why, acknowledging the prevalence of submissive in our society
can help them put it in a more realistic perspective. Understanding just
how many others face the same situation (regardless of who they are or
who they're married to) can help break the sense of being so alone, isolated,
or "singled out" for this experience. It can help overcome the
feeling of "why me?"
People who have not yet faced this issue, either in their
own lives or with their friends or family, would do well to start with
a realistic picture of the frequency of submissive in society as a whole.
It's not that the sheer frequency means it will happen to any specific
person, but it does say a lot about the kind of support to expect from
society for remaining monogamous vs. having submissive. We need to make
a commitment to face the reality of submissive and address the issue in
a more responsible way, both individually and as a society.
Bottom Line: Most of us expect monogamy to be a normal
part of marriage or any committed relationship. The reality is that monogamy
is not the norm.
. Is Monogamy "Natural?"
People often get caught up in a debate over whether people are naturally
monogamous or naturally have submissive. That's a useless debate, as was
clearly expressed by Jessie Bernard in her classic work, The Future of
"Millions of words have been used to document both
the naturalness and the unnaturalness of monogamy. The question...is,
actually, unanswerable. We will never know if there is anything intrinsic
in human nature that limits the ways the sexes can relate to one another
because no one has ever survived outside of any culture long enough to
teach us. Human nature seems to be able to take almost any form of marriage—or
unable to take any form."
We can only understand monogamy and submissive in a societal context,
in terms of the attitudes of society as a whole. Normally, when we try
to understand why submissive happen we look only at the reasons why a
person might want to have an affair, such as the excitement of sexual
variety. But this doesn't explain why submissive happen. People may want
to have submissive for a wide range of reasons, but their decision to
act on those desires is affected by the values and actions of those around
submissive happen in so many marriages that it's unreasonable
to think they're due solely to factors within each marriage. Whatever
the personal factors involved in submissive, they are more than outweighed
by the significant, powerful, and pervasive societal factors. We have
a responsibility to learn more about our role, individually and as a whole,
in supporting the societal factors that contribute to submissive.
Bottom Line: Debating the "naturalness" or
"unnaturalness" of monogamy is a way of avoiding dealing directly
with this issue. Regardless of whether or not it's "natural,"
it's happening; so starting from there, there is much to learn.
How Can submissive be Prevented?
Prevention is possible only through a commitment to
Honesty, not a "promise" to be monogamous.
Definition of Honesty: not withholding relevant information.
What won't work:
Couples can't avoid submissive by assuming monogamy or even by promising
monogamy without discussing the issue. And they can't avoid submissive
by making threats as to what they would do if it happened. Either of these
paths creates a cycle of dishonesty. In either case, people don't feel
free to admit being attracted to someone else. If they don't admit these
attractions, then they won't admit being tempted. If they don't admit
being tempted, then they certainly won't admit it if and when they finally
act on the attraction. The effect on the relationship is to cause it to
be filled with jealousy and suspicion, as well as making it less likely
that it will be monogamous.
What will work:
On the other hand, by specifically making a commitment to honesty, both
partners realize that attractions to others are likely, indeed inevitable,
no matter how much they love each other. So they engage in ongoing honest
communication about the reality of the temptations and how to avoid the
consequences of acting on those temptations. The effect on the relationship
is to create a sense of closeness and a knowledge of each other that replaces
suspicion with trust, making it more likely that it will be monogamous.
Why honesty works:
The process of discussing attractions actually decreases the likelihood
of acting on them, because it focuses on the potential problems of acting
on them; whereas when a person is tempted to have an affair, their private
thoughts usually dwell only on the potential pleasures. There's an added
fascination and excitement about feelings that are kept secret as compared
to those that are acknowledged and discussed. Shedding the cold light
of day on secret desires goes a long way toward diminishing their power.
Who can use this process?
This process of acknowledging attractions and discussing how they are
to be handled is one that both married and unmarried couples need to address
prior to any problem with submissive. Constantly wondering and worrying
about this issue creates a strain between partners that may prevent their
developing a sense of trust in each other. They need to talk through their
feelings about monogamy and attractions to other people on an ongoing
basis as their relationship develops.
Bottom Line: There are no guarantees. The issue of monogamy
is never settled once and for all. It requires ongoing honest discussion
of the issue. This makes it possible for a couple to feel they really
know each other, making it more likely they can trust that they won't
deceive each other, thus preventing submissive.
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