suspect spouse is having an affair?advice after an affair
Do you suspect or know that your partner or spouse is having an extramarital affair?
"Clues" that your Partner is Having an Affair
The first signals of an affair are seldom the stereotypical signs we first consider. They're usually much more subtle, more of an intuitive reaction to changes in a partner's behavior?a sense that "something is different." No matter how careful a person is to hide an affair, these "clues" can't be easily concealed.
Pulling Away: when you sense your partner pulling away?creating an emotional distance between you (because they now need to protect a secret).
Changes in Normal Patterns of Behavior: spending more time away from home, paying more attention to their appearance, being less attentive, being less (or more) interested in sex?
Comments or Actions that are "Out of Character:" making casual comments about new, unfamiliar interests or acting in unfamiliar ways (like becoming more outgoing, less serious).
Being Irritable, Vague, Distracted, "In Their Own World:" ignoring or criticizing any effort you make to question their actions or even engage them in discussing personal issues.
Your own rationalization: if you are repeatedly discounting clues of an affair and trying to convince yourself that YOUR partner wouldn't have an affair, this may be the biggest clue of all.
WARNING: These are only clues (not proof) that your partner is having an affair; so it's wise not to jump to conclusions. Other possible reasons for these behaviors include concerns about health, aging, or finances. But whatever the reason for these changes, they probably indicate a problem that needs to be addressed.
The Art of the Cheat
If you suspect infidelity in your relationship, you're half way there. INTUITION is one of the most powerful gifts weve been given. But its not enough by itself.
You can continue living your life day to day on the brink of an EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN, being PHYSICALLY NEGLECTED and EMOTIONALLY ABUSED by your partner.
Or you can PUT AN END TO THE HELL YOUVE BEEN LIVING IN by finding out for sure whether or not you're being cheated on.
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You already know the statistics: nearly 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. But don't give up on the marriage! There is an alternative to divorce. In fact, you could have the relationship of your dreams!
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30% Of online relationships evolve into real-world affairs. A staggering nine out of ten women in relationships flirt with other men on a regular basis.
Studies find that more than one in five men do have an affair, at least once in their lives, and that women are now about as likely as men to cross the line.
In a survey 98 percent of men and 80 percent of women surveyed reported having a sexual fantasy about someone other than their partner at least once in the previous two months. Bet it's higher!
The chance of a married woman having an affair is highest within the first five years and falls off gradually with time. Men have two high-risk phases, one during the first five years of marriage and, the second, after the 20th year.