What is a Swinger?
Swingers are people who are curious about sexual adventures. Because strippers tend to be more in touch with the sexual experimentation side of their lives, they tend to migrate towards the swinging lifestyle. I thought it would be important to explain this arena so all strippers will be more informed. Since levels of appetite for sexual pleasure is elemental to the human race, Swingers represent every race, gender, color and creed in this world. She might be the postman that brings your mail or he might be the secretary in your office. They might be the couple that lives below you or a friend you've known since high school.
I'm interested in experimenting with this life style, but how do I get my man involved?
The way I would approach it would be to flat out ask him. I'm a bad girl and if he doesn't know that by now, hey! But, that is not the approach everyone should take. Some should try to hint around, and when he thinks of it, let him think he came up with the idea. The first way is the best for someone like me. When I am looking at a Brad Pitt movie, I would say something like, "If I had the chance to fuck Brad, would you be mad at me if I wanted too?" "Would you let him fuck me?" And of course JP doesn't mind. If he is watching a video with a hot girl, I might say something like, "How would you like to fuck her while she sucks my pussy?" If that approach is to rough, the next way might be better for you. Maybe your man is a little sexually repressed because of his childhood programming. Maybe he doesn't understand that much about sex and needs to be led along. Maybe while you are letting him fuck you, say something like, "Fuck me like I was a school girl," or "Fuck me like I was some whore." You can replace the last noun in the sentence with anything that might get in his head, ie. your best friend (you catch him looking at her sometimes) or whatever comes to mind to get him into switching it up. Once you get him to playing these games, checking out porno movies, and magazines, then you can ask him in your most naive voice, "What is a swinger?"
I am thinking about checking this swinging thing out but I am unsure, what next?
Some people mistakenly believe that physical attractiveness and being financially wealthy are the main prerequisites for swinging. Some think that in order to swing you have to be gorgeous and have the money in order to party for days at a time without having to worry. That is all untrue. There are more than enough poor fat people who are on the swinging scene. The main things you need to consider before getting into this scene is spiritual and mental stability. The spirit world is confusing enough to many people. If you are not strong in your beliefs in this area, then you should stay far away from swinging. Being mentally stable is also very important. If you would like to see a young blonde guy with a big cock flirting with you, then be prepared to see your man driving his dick into the blonde guys cute wife. If you would like to bend over and back up into the young guys hard dick, be prepared to hear his wife scream how much she loves your man's cock. If you and your mate are stable in your minds for the experience of swinging, it makes it a more stimulating experience and many people say that it strengthens their relationships on a more spiritual level.
I don't want anyone knowing I am going to check out this swinging thing, is that going to be a problem?
Swinging societies have existed ever since the beginning of time and they have been able to remain a secret society despite the local fanatical groups that try to stamp them out. If you are interested in learning more about this way of life, you will be asked to keep confidential the people you meet. It is not likely that a person that is involved with swinging will go around letting others know about it. The best ways to look into this lifestyle is to chat with others about it over the Internet first or exchange email. I would suggest you use an email account that you don't use for any other purpose. Sign up for membership with us. Strippers are usually into something wild and crazy as long as they are secure. Ask around on the private message boards, and see who is out there looking for sexy fun. JP and I are listed as a fun sexy couple to party with under elleandjp at Adult Friend Finder. If you are interested in having a sexual experience with a person of your choice, try Adult Friend Finder. Whatever you do stay safe, be yourself, have fun, and learn about life.
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